A personal belief that relationships can begin with less interference, more self-knowledge, and real human care.
Finding a partner — the first time, or after loss — can be dignified, intentional, and free of the noise.— Founder, Thulir
I am a practicing pediatric surgeon by training — but somewhere along the way, I became just as invested in the science of relationships as I am in the science of healing.
Over years of clinical practice, I watched something else unfold quietly around me: marriages ending, families fracturing, and often, well-meaning relatives and parents shaping decisions that were never truly theirs to make.
In India, love rarely happens in isolation — families, society, and circumstance all have a hand in it.
I started Thulir because I believe it doesn't have to be this way. That finding a partner — the first time, or after loss — can be dignified, intentional, and free of the noise.
Thulir is my attempt to change how relationships begin in India: with less interference, more self-knowledge, and real human care guiding the way.
A quieter, more thoughtful way to begin.
Every introduction begins with understanding the person, not ticking boxes on a profile.
Your story, preferences, and personal details remain yours. Consent comes before every introduction.
Support continues after an introduction through feedback, events, coaching, and genuine human presence.
If this story resonates with you, the next step is simple: begin your private enrollment and let us reach out with care.
Your story is reviewed by a real person, followed by a gentle, founder-led consultation to understand where you are.
Thulir works from Chennai and facilitates thoughtful introductions for people across India.
Want clarity before enrolling? Visit the full process page to see each step.
