Every step is designed to be thoughtful, unhurried, and entirely in your hands.
You begin by filling a detailed form on our website — covering your background, lifestyle, what you're looking for, emotional readiness, and dealbreakers. Optionally, you may also upload a short video introduction.
A member of our team gets on a personal call with you — to understand you better, answer your questions, and ensure that Thulir is the right fit for where you are right now.
Our team manually reviews profiles and identifies compatible matches with care. Both parties are informed and give their consent before any details are shared — and we facilitate every introduction personally.
We help you plan your first meeting — suggesting a comfortable, safe, and public venue. If you'd like, a Thulir team member can also be on standby for quiet support.
We host small, curated group experiences — pottery and painting workshops, trekking outings, group sport events, shared hobby meetups, intimate group dinners, and occasional curated group trips. Spaces where you get to know people as they truly are.
After every meeting, we check in with you. Your feedback helps us refine your profile and preferences — so every introduction brings you a little closer to the right person.
For members who have recently experienced divorce or loss, we offer access to licensed therapists and relationship counsellors. Two to four sessions can be arranged at any point in your journey — not because something is wrong, but because beginning again deserves the right kind of support.
This is something no other matchmaking service in the region offers.
A real person will read your enrollment with care and contact you for the next conversation.
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